“The bottom line is not how fast you make your dream come true, but how steadily you pursue it.” Sarah Ban Breathnach, Simple Abundance
This morning I got up before daylight as I love to do. I enjoy
having a little time to myself before other family members get up.
However, these days it’s not too hard to find time for myself. With
both sons in college and a husband with a very demanding job, I finally
have the time to do all those things I always wished I had time to do.
Ha!
I like to read and write early in the morning. Today I read a
little from one of my favorite books, Simple Abundance. The essay was
entitled “Setting Your Own Pace”. In the essay she speaks about
another author, Anne Tyler. She says…
“Anne Tyler reveals in a collection of essays, The Writer on Her Work,
how difficult it is to create around family life. Writing is her frame
of reference, as it is mine, but the same principle applies to any
passion. One March a character arrived in her consciousness as she was
painting the downstairs hall. She knew if “she sat down and organized
this character on paper, a novel would grow up around him. But it was
March and the children’s spring vacation began the next day, so I
waited.” By July she was finally able to start. Even with the
inevitable creative delays that daily life brings, there is tremendous
gain in the struggle to answer your calling with children growing up
all around you. “It seems to me that since I’ve had children, I’ve
grown richer and deeper,” Ann Tyler confesses. “They may have slowed
down my writing for a while, but when I did write, I had more of a self
to speak from.”
Creating artwork to share with others has always been my dream. When
my boys were small I would steal every napping second I could to expend
my creative energies…I painted (Trompe L'Oeil) walls in our house,
designed projects for the boy’s school, illustrated homes for a local
builder and freelanced for a variety of clients…always making sure the
boys had quality time with me. There were many occasions in which the
boys would have to accompany me (ages 3 & 5) to meet with printers
and some very understanding clients (I don’t recommend this). Those
were not easy days.
I still get a bit startled when I walk into a fabric store and see a
bolt of fabric that I designed…or drive down the road and spot a house
proudly flying one of my flags or see their mailbox wrapped in one of
my designs…or get an email from one of you telling me how much you
enjoy my art!
I say all of that to say this…for all of you who have dreams of
doing something that you find it almost impossible to squeeze in the
time for, don’t give up. Chip away a little every day. Before you
know it, you will be there and will have learned so much on your
journey!